
Yesterday my sister and I, along with my 3 kiddos were in search of an elevator at the mall, only to find it occupied by 6 females, none of which seemed unable to walk or too little to navigate some stairs on their own. Now considering that there was a flight of stairs, not steep and not many, less than 8 feet away, directly across from the elevators you would think that common sense would have told them to keep the elevator free for those who really needed it.
To make a long story short, one woman did hold the elevator for me, but as I attempted to navigate my way in with my brood in tow, not one of those women even stepped aside to allow me to push my overflowing stroller into the elevator. Out of the corner of my eye I could see another family quickly approaching with their small children and a stroller, and as they tried to enter one of the women behind me called to them, "There's not enough room for 2 strollers in here!". Now I've been to this mall enough times in my life to know that at LEAST 3 strollers can fit in this elevator, plus all the parents and siblings. I felt completely outraged that because these 6 women were too lazy to walk down a flight of stairs, or walk a little further to the escalators, a family who could ONLY use the elevators not only had to wait to use it, but were being told by someone who didn't need to use it that they couldn't!
As a parent with a stroller, I know what a pain it is to have to wait in line because there are a sea full of strollers also waiting for the 1 elevator in the entire mall. Yes, there have been times when I've maneuvered my stroller up the escalator (I do not recommend this to anyone), with my two older children ahead of me because I don't want to wait forever to go up or down. What makes me angriest about this whole situation is the attitude that they were doing me a favour by ALLOWING me to get in with them. The woman behind me, the same one who had told the other family there wasn't enough space, actually had the nerve to say to her friend that I hadn't even thanked them for holding the elevator for me. Uh, excuse me? Should I be thankful for the fact that the woman who had uttered this remark had not been the one to hold the doors open, and had it been up to her she would have let them shut in our face? Or should I be thankful that it's because of people like her that other families or those utilizing wheelchairs or walkers would be forced to wait because of her laziness? Perhaps, in my haste, I did not thank the woman who held open the elevator doors for us, and to her I apologize and offer a brief 'Thank You', but to those other women I say: GET OUT OF THE ELEVATOR AND LET THOSE WHO NEED TO USE IT, USE IT!!!! STOP BEING SO LAZY AND HAVE A LITTLE COMMON COURTESY!!!
I'm done my rant, carry on.


